OurVow

Partnering with your church to strengthen every covenant.

Give your couples a daily ritual — a quiet place to turn toward God and toward each other, and keep their marriage Christ-centered between Sundays.

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The Three Pillars

Why Your Ministry Needs This

Protection of the home

Marriage care before the cracks appear. A daily moment where couples set the noise aside and turn back toward Christ and toward each other.

Discipleship beyond Sunday

Your couples spend most of their week away from the church. OurVow walks with them there — marriage discipleship that needs nothing from you, every day of the year.

From the wedding day onward

The natural next step after your premarital counseling: what you taught them over those months becomes a habit they keep for life. Give it as a wedding gift, and their marriage begins with a daily rhythm of faith already in place.

Theological Foundation

Rooted in Scripture.

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Every daily question is paired with Scripture, so your couples' connection stays anchored in the Word of God.

"Above all, love each other deeply." — 1 Peter 4:8

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Church Partnership Program

What we offer your church

Your church's code

A code of your own (e.g. GRACE-7K2M) that opens 90 days of Premium to every couple in your congregation.

Ministry toolkit

Everything you need to announce it: visuals for your bulletin and social media, and the words to introduce it on a Sunday — ready to use.

90 days, our gift to your couples

Free for your church and for them, for a full season. Yours to give whenever you're ready.

Get Started

Request a Ministry Code

Fill out this short form and we'll email your church's code right away.

This isn't a generic product. Tell us which themes your couples need most, and write one question in your own words — we'll weave both into your church's season.

Shape the season with us

We'll gently highlight them across the 90 days (pick up to 2).

Any day works — we suggest a Sunday, when you can announce it. You can move it anytime from your dashboard — we'll simply move the season with you.

Write as if you were speaking to your couples — one question each spouse can answer in a minute or two. Use "your spouse" rather than names.

e.g. "What is one way your spouse showed you Christ's love this week?"

Privacy First

Every conversation between a husband and wife is sacred. What your couples write stays between the two of them: their answers are encrypted and private to the two of them. We never sell them. Your dashboard shows you the pulse of your cohort — how many couples are taking part and staying with it — and never a word of what they write.

Frequently asked questions

What pastors and church leaders ask us most.

OurVow is a daily marriage discipleship tool for the married couples in your church — a question, a verse, and a short devotional each day that keeps couples connected to God and to each other between Sundays.

Keep it — OurVow works alongside what you already do. A retreat or a class lives in a season: it ends, and the everyday returns. OurVow lives in that everyday, carrying your ministry into the days between the events. And it meets couples where their attention already is — the phone that quietly pulls them apart all day becomes, for a few moments, what draws them back toward each other and toward God.

You share your church's code with your couples, and OurVow takes it from there — it runs on its own. We also give you a simple dashboard where you can quietly follow your community's growth: couples showing up, drawing closer to God and to each other. It's always in the aggregate — each couple's words stay theirs alone.

Yes — the first 90 days are free for your church and every couple in it. After that, your church can keep it going with a simple annual license that keeps OurVow free for your couples — or couples who'd like to continue can do so on their own.

During the 90 days, your couples receive OurVow as a gift from the church — the church provides it, and it's free to them.

The questions hold to a biblical, Christ-centered view of marriage as a covenant, and they're shaped with the input of pastors and Christian counselors. They serve couples across the evangelical spectrum and stay neutral on the contested points of marital roles.