20 Questions for Christian Couples Who've Been Married a While

You know their coffee order and their childhood stories. You may not know these.

  1. 1.

    What has the Lord changed in you that you’re glad about?

  2. 2.

    What do you know about God now that you didn't when we married?

  3. 3.

    What part of me has surprised you most over the years?

  4. 4.

    Which memory of us do you return to most often?

  5. 5.

    What have you become better at because of us?

  6. 6.

    What have you asked God for the longest?

  7. 7.

    What habit of mine have you grown to love?

  8. 8.

    What do you think I'm best at?

  9. 9.

    What do you see in me that I don't?

  10. 10.

    When have you felt most loved by me?

  11. 11.

    What season of ours would you live again?

  12. 12.

    What are you still asking God for?

  13. 13.

    If God gave you a year with no obligations, what would you do with it?

  14. 14.

    What tradition do you want this family to keep?

  15. 15.

    What has Christ grown in us that neither of us planted?

  16. 16.

    What have you always wanted to tell me and never got around to?

  17. 17.

    What’s the most restful hour of your week?

  18. 18.

    What do you want Christ to have done through our marriage?

  19. 19.

    What have I taught you about God without meaning to?

  20. 20.

    Where should we go together before we're too old to enjoy it?